你明知道无法和TA在一起，却还是去爱TA，这样好吗

你明知道无法和TA在一起，却还是去爱TA，这样好吗

Is It Okay to Love Someone Knowing You Can't Be with Them？

@Gene Spafford

Of course you can love someone without spending the future with them... and you don't need permission to do so!

However, a key thing is to avoid wistfully wishing that you could be with that person if that is not to be. Accept what fate has given you, and maybe seek out①seek out 找出；搜出；想获得 同近义词： chase down ， find out about Talk about your job hunt with only the most energizing friends，family membersand colleagues，and seek out positive acquaintances. 只与那些最有精神的朋友、家人和同事谈论你的求职问题，并找出认识的人中积极的人。others to love, too. Love is a renewable resource.

@Elsa Schraeder

Sure, it is ok to love someone knowing that you will never be with them. However, be careful that this love doesn't morph into an emotional block which prevents②prevent 英 ［prɪ'vent］ 美 ［pri'vɛnt］ vt. 预防，防止；阻止 vi. 妨碍，阻止prevent from 阻止，制止；妨碍 prevent and control pollution 防治污染；预防和控制污染We must prevent the trouble from spreading. 我们必须防止这个乱子扩大。The food in the cooler can prevent spoiling. 冰箱里的食品可以防止腐败。you from finding and loving someone who you can be with.

@Anshi Akanksha

@Joy Samudrala

Y es! it's completely okay to love someone knowing that they won't be with you in future!!!

HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS!!!

This is the root cause which can hurt you pretty bad. The more you expect, the more you remain attached to the person and this will make things hard and worse for you. Love her but don't expect her to love you back, this will leave nothing but disappointment and make it worse.

So don't expect anything from her and just do things, because you just wanna love her and want her to be happy.

Small piece of advice.

If you think it's not possible to forget about her because she's the one you love and you just can't really get over her...trust me it's all in your head. Time is being wasted. She's standing like a door between you and the women who's right for you. Get over and things shall happen.

You deserve someone better.

你当然可以去爱一个无法共度未来的人……而且你做这件事并不需要得到他人首肯。

但是，关键是你要避免极度期盼，不要期待假如换种情况，你就可以和那个人在一起。接受你的命运吧，也许你可以找到其他人来爱。爱是可再生资源。

当然可以，你可以去爱一个明知道永远不会在一起的人。但是，你要注意，不要让这份爱成为你的感情障碍，阻止你寻找并爱上一个可以与你在一起的人。

是的，当然可以去爱一个明知道不会和你共度未来的人！！！

不要有所期待！！！

这是会伤你很深的最主要原因。你期望得越多，你就越会去与她保持联系，而对你来说这会让事情变得更糟、更艰难。爱她，但不要期待她也会爱你，否则只会徒增失望，让事情更糟。

所以不要期待从她那里得到什么，你只要做你应做的，因为你只是想要爱着她、想要她快乐。

给个小建议。

如果你觉得没法忘了她，因为你爱她，过不了她这道坎……相信我，这都只是你脑中的想法。时光在流逝，她就像是一扇门，站在你和你的真命天女之间，跨过去，一切都会好起来。

你值得更好的人。