男生心中的完美女友

绘/ 小雨点

男生心中的完美女友

The Perfect Girlfriend in the Views of Boys

绘/ 小雨点

We're feeling a little misty-eyed thinking about true love. Well, you can create your own relationship success by looking for the right traits in a woman instead of just swiping right on everyone on Tinder.

1. She's Independent

No one gets into a relationship to be a babysitter. If she can't seem to function without you, you'll eventually suffocate①suffocate 英 ［'sʌfəkeɪt］ 美 ［'sʌfəket］ vi. 受阻，受扼制；窒息 vt. 压制，阻碍；使……窒息The outcome is， once again， deadly. You will suffocate. 结果只会是，再一次的致命——你会窒息而死。同近义词： silence ， slow, and if you're sm art you'll run for the nearest exit.

2. She's Intelligent

I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won't let you get bored or complacent②complacent 英 ［kəm'pleɪs（ə）nt］ 美 ［kəm'plesnt］ adj. 自满的；得意的；满足的同近义词：adj. proud ， fulfilled Don't be complacent over occasional success. Don't feel self-satisfied over a minor success.不要沾沾自喜于一得之功。.

3. You're Attracted To Her

I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. Being seen with her should make you feel better about yourself. And this doesn't mean that she has to be a Heidi Klum clone. Your m utual attraction should m ake you both want to stay looking your best.

4 . She Respects You

This is a biggie. A great girlfriend will keep major disputes private rather than taking you down in public.

5. She Lets You Be A Man

If she's a great girlfriend, she'll even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.

6. She Gets A long With Y our Friends And Family

She'll help your parents out at Thanksgiving, try to understand your brother's twisted③twist 英 ［twɪst］ 美 ［twɪst］ vt. 捻；拧；扭伤；编织；使苦恼 n. 扭曲；拧；扭伤 vi. 扭动；弯曲twists and turns 迂回曲折 twist drill n. 麻花钻；螺旋钻 twist and turn 迂回曲折 twist angle 扭转角twist off 扭断；拧开 Gin and tonic with a twist of lemon. 杜松子酒里有一块扭曲的柠檬。sense of humor. Your friends won't roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she'll be joining you guys when she gets off work—she's one of the crowd.

7 She Loves You

If you have found a wom an who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be som etim es, you should definitely hang on to her.

作为男生，我们有时会对真爱长什么样有些迷惑。如果基于以下几点特质寻找，你就会找到完美爱侣，再也不用在Tinder到处浏览。

1. 独立

谁也不想变成另一半的老妈子。如果她离了你就不行，总有一天你会窒息崩溃的。你要足够聪明，就赶快逃开！

2.智慧

我真不想提醒你，但女人易老如鲜花易逝。智慧的女性会持续带来惊喜，令人振奋！你不会无聊，也不会沾沾自喜。

3.她吸引你

这个看起来显而易见，但真的很重要！和她走在一起，你应该感到自豪。不是说她得变成海蒂·克鲁姆（维密天使之一）的样子，而是你们能互相吸引、持续点亮对方的优点！

4. 她尊重你

这条重要了！一个超棒的女友是不会让你在公开场合下不来台的，她会把争议放在私下解决。

5. 她让你更Man

一个完美女友会在你和哥们儿相处时给你拿几瓶啤酒，做几份她秘制的三明治。

6. 她和你的亲友相处甚欢

她会帮你爸妈一起准备感恩节，试着听懂你兄弟曲折的笑话。你的朋友不会在听说她要一起来玩时哀鸿遍野。她是你社交圈的一分子！

7. 她爱你

如果你碰到一个女人，她喜爱的是你真实的模样，而不是你时而的伪装，这时你一定要紧紧抓住她！